Tadhg Cleary

Rabbi
Tadhg Cleary
Personal life
NationalityNew Zealander
Alma materYeshivat Har Etzion,
Yeshivat Chovevei Torah,
Victoria University of Wellington
OccupationJewish rabbi and spiritual leader
Religious life
ReligionJudaism
DenominationOrthodox Judaism
YeshivaYeshivat Chovevei Torah
SemikhahRabbi Avi Weiss

Tadgh Seamus Cleary is an ordained Orthodox Jewish rabbi from New Zealand. He was ordained at Yeshivat Chovevei Torah (YCT) in 2025 and is notable for being the first ever openly homosexual rabbi ordained by an American Orthodox institution.[1]

Early life

Cleary grew up in Wellington, New Zealand in an loosely religiously affiliated home, sometimes attending a Progressive Jewish synagogue (akin to Reform Judaism in the United States). Cleary was first introduced to greater observance at age 12 as a result of an interaction with a religious mentor while studying for his bar mitzvah. Curiosity led him to investigate further, and he has considered himself Orthodox since 14. By then, Cleary was performing daily religious rituals and observing both Shabbat and kosher laws.[1]

After high school, Cleary planned to spend a year learning abroad at Yeshivat Har Etzion in Alon Shvut, an Israeli settlement in the West Bank, but ended up remaining there for two additional years. Afterward, he returned to Wellington to earn a college degree.[1] He studied law, educational psychology and philosophy (ethics) at Victoria University.

Homosexuality

Cleary recognised his attraction to men before his bar mitzvah. Early on, he considered marrying a woman because of Orthodox rules against homosexual relationships, but he changed his mind in 2020. At the time, he was an advisor at his alma mater Har Etzion, and when he approached the administration to ask if he could come out to his students, they told him that if he did he would be asked to leave. He decided to remain at Har Etzion and in the closet.[1]

Interested in having rabbinic guidance who would more compassionately embrace him, Cleary reached out to Rabbi Steven Greenberg, who in 1999 became the first Orthodox rabbi to come out as gay. Greenberg recommended that he attend YCT and spoke to the rabbinical director, Rabbi Dov Linzer, on his behalf. Cleary enrolled in 2022. As a result of this stance on homosexuality, the Rabbinical Council of America does not accredit YCT, effectively blocking its graduates from holding pulpit positions at most Orthodox synagogues in the United States.[1] Cleary informed YCT about the situation prior to enrolling, making his acceptance of their offer into their rabbinical program contingent on them permitting him to be openly gay, and they accepted. However, YCT did make it clear that he could not marry his homosexual partner while enrolled, and he agreed to these terms. Now that Cleary has matriculated, he intends to marry his partner.[2]

Until Cleary and the yeshiva were contacted by the Forward, neither had planned not to discuss his ordination publicly. In their view, this controversy is not pertinent to Cleary’s qualifications as a rabbi.[1] In an interview, Linzer called Cleary “an enormous talmid chacham,” or Torah scholar, “who is God-fearing, scrupulous in his observance and happens to be gay.”

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